McFamily's BLOG

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PR granted!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!25 Mar 2010
One year in!18 Jan 2010
English language requirement21 Jul 2009
Permanent residence01 Jul 2009
Nomadic merchants 22 Jun 2009
Driver's Licence19 Jun 2009
A quick hello!18 Jun 2009
Immigration Intake Cut16 Mar 2009
Medical treatment11 Mar 2009
Rain - lots of it!01 Mar 2009
Bad news from South Africa01 Mar 2009
Seafreight delivered26 Feb 2009
Babies25 Feb 2009
Housepicking23 Feb 2009
Crazy Cat Laws23 Feb 2009
A 'funeral' outback style19 Feb 2009
Homebased business in Oz17 Feb 2009
Organic & free range products13 Feb 2009
Vaccinations11 Feb 2009
One month in11 Feb 2009
Aircon and electricity09 Feb 2009
A nation in shock and mourning09 Feb 2009
The movers 31 Jan 2009
Australia Day27 Jan 2009
Cyclone!26 Jan 2009
My First South African25 Jan 2009
Heat25 Jan 2009
4x423 Jan 2009
New goal & mobile phone23 Jan 2009
FIFO22 Jan 2009
The gardeners22 Jan 2009
My email address21 Jan 2009
Angels of Mercy21 Jan 2009
We are in!21 Jan 2009
Temporary Accommodation06 Jan 2009
Moving abroad and the taxman06 Jan 2009
One week to go!03 Jan 2009
Preparing for the outback02 Jan 2009
Countdown01 Jan 2009
Emigration ain't for sissies24 Dec 2008
The indigenous issue18 Dec 2008
Excitement and panic14 Dec 2008
Unabridged birth certificates14 Dec 2008
Sorting out stuff08 Dec 2008
Bookings06 Dec 2008
Visa Application06 Dec 2008
Preparing to depart02 Dec 2008
South African bank's advice28 Nov 2008
Bitter-sweet25 Nov 2008
Being South African ...25 Nov 2008
Losing my Religion22 Nov 2008
Ouch21 Nov 2008
Emigration Wave20 Nov 2008
Taking a container or not18 Nov 2008
So much stuff!15 Nov 2008
Health Examinations12 Nov 2008
Crikey ... another medical!11 Nov 2008
Australian Bureau of Stats07 Nov 2008
The relocation team04 Nov 2008
Job offer30 Oct 2008
The LSD20 Oct 2008
Prams and baby car seats13 Oct 2008
Infant formula & pearls11 Oct 2008
Infant formula10 Oct 2008
Sabona! Site for S. Africans!10 Oct 2008
Skills assessment08 Oct 2008
Homework06 Oct 2008
The beginning of our quest04 Oct 2008
25 Nov 2008
It is starting to happen ... we are experiencing the last of certain things, that is, if everything goes according to plan with the visa. Baby and I will be attending our last mommy and baby workshop today as it is the end of term. (Argh ... I hope I don't cry!) We have been attending since she was 9 weeks old. For the past few months she has really started enjoying the classes - recognising the cartoon characters and songs and enjoying being around other babies. So sweet seeing them interact! The Christmas party is on Saturday so today isn't the very last activity but some moms and babes won't be attending the party.

I feel terrible in some ways tearing baby away from all the good things in South Africa and I have to remind myself why we need to leave this crazy place. Staying here won't be doing her (or us) any favours. You just have to read the local paper for a grim reminder of why we need to escape. Just last week the headline was about an elderly woman a couple of suburbs away being brutally murdered in her kitchen with kitchen knives. Once you have paged through a few more pages of the newspaper, you literally want to run away ... more murders, rapes, burglaries, robberies, smash and grabs, hijackings, municipal incompetence endangering public health, etc. Shocking stuff! And this is just the local paper!

Baby will grow up an Aussie in a much safer environment. She won't have any memories of these early days as she'll be leaving while still so young but she will know she was greatly loved back in Africa.