Yesterday was the worst day of my life. My Dad had Kidney cancer last year and 3 weeks ago he had his full body scan so that they could give him the official all clear. The consultant had to give us the bad news that he now has secondary lung cancer - it had spread. We don't know what the future holds at the minute as they can't cut this one out like they did with his Kidney. We are waiting for his case to be reviewed on Thursday with a group on consultants who will decide what the best way forward is and then they will call him back in. We are all devastated. It puts things into perspective though and you have to go out there and grab every opportunity in front of you and live life to the full. I had to call my brother in New Zealand and tell him the news which was the hardest thing to do, my arms just weren't long enough to give him the big hug he needed.